A Student’s Story
One of my students shared vulnerably about his journey. He used to run a lot and was preparing for the Army Half-Marathon, but because of a health issue and surgery, he had to stop. This year, as he slowly picked up jogging again, he found himself envious of friends who could already clock 10 km runs with ease—while he was still struggling.
My Own Resonance
His words struck me deeply. I too was once a marathoner, and after an injury, I could no longer run the way I used to. It was one of the hardest seasons of my life. That sense of loss, of watching others do what I once could, is something I know well.
The Nature of Envy
Envy often reveals our longing for a different life, one we imagine would be “better.” And yet, the pain of loss is real. Something valuable is gone, and it is only human to feel sadness and disappointment. To deny that is unrealistic—we must allow ourselves to grieve.
But sometimes grief keeps us stuck. We end up paralyzed, spending all our energy looking inward, consumed by self-pity.
👉 How should the Christian think about this?
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A Christian Hope
What then is the way forward? Many people say we should “trust the process” or that “things will work out.” But how can we be sure? As Christians, we cling to Romans 8:28:
“And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to His purpose.”
This is not blind optimism. It is faith in God’s character and promise. Even in our deepest losses, hope remains.
Looking Back, Seeing Grace
In hindsight, many of us can testify that our lowest moments were also the times God used most powerfully—rescuing us from darkness, drawing us closer to Himself, and deepening our relationship with Him.
The very season that seemed unbearable at the time was, in fact, God’s way of shaping us and drawing us nearer to His heart. For that, we can truly give thanks.